Plan B

Plan B. The second option. The "If this plan doesn't work out-I'm going to come hang out with you" feeling. Not a fun feeling. At least not for those people in the "Plan B" role out there. The fallback option. The second tier. The back-up pitcher. The second string. Whatever term tickles your fancy. It's the unpleasant feeling of being someone else's second option. It really really sucks. BUT-we don't have to choose to be the Plan B. We can choose to be Plan A or no plan at all. That's what we can tell those people in our lives that make us feel that way. Don't subsist off of the crumbs of other people's attention. If they aren't going to feed you a solid meal don't bother showing up to the table.