Grieving Over "What If"

"What If..." So many of us get stuck in that circle of thinking about our lives. We think, if we had done such-and-such differently, then something better might have happened. The truth of the matter is, all of the things that have happened were meant to happen as they were meant to happen. And who really knows, perhaps if something else had happened you'd be in a far worse situation than you are currently in. We often think that we "should be" somewhere we simply aren't ready for or someplace we simply aren't suppose to be. Though this is easier said than done, there is a deep understanding that everything happens for a reason. We are always be cared for for our absolute highest good. We must be willing to let things fall apart so we can be broken open and better things can fall together.